Calling All Singles: What Questions Do You Have On Dating and Relationships?
Wed, Feb 3 2010 by Celes
With Valentine’s Day here this month, our 1st episode for the month of February is going to be all about the world of singlehood and dating! We are honored to have on board Violet Lim – highly sought-after dating and relationship expert, as well as co-founder of Lunch Actually (Asia’s largest and premier dating company), to share with us her expert insights!
If you are a single who (1) is tired of meeting the wrong people (2) wants to get insights into the minds of the opposite gender (3) wants to learn what it takes to meet your right match, this episode is meant for you. In the episode, we will be learning:
- The #1 reason why single males/females cannot find their right match today
- Top 3 things males / females look for in their ideal relationship partners
- How long it takes for a guy to decide whether he wants to have a second date
- Biggest turnoffs guys / girls have for their dates, so we can avoid making them!
- What we can do to ensure a successful date
- What we can do to increase the chances of meeting the right match
We want to hear from you. What questions do you have on singlehood, dating, relationships, or the opposite gender? Is there anything on your mind regarding finding that right match for you? Please share with us in the comments box below or via Twitter / Facebook before 7 Feb! Our interview is scheduled on 8 Feb and we will pick the top questions to ask Violet then.
Stay tuned for the actual episode – it will be online on 12 Feb! 
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I have to say i love your advice! and i do have a question, i have a 6 month old baby with my bf who i have lived with for 3 years and we dont love each other. although nobody can tell, we get along and LIKE each other, but we are not in love… its mostly on his behalf, but he does have alot of unfavorable qualities that i’m not sure i could live with forever… should i tell him i want things to change and put a time cap on it? should i just come to the realization that its not meant to be and save up for my own place? we have the best baby in the world and i would hate for us to not be together but im not sure i want to be with him forever…im so towrn! please, any advice will help!
Hi Celes,
I do have a few questions to ask, is it wrong for girls to pursue guys first? if women give strong hints to men that she likes him, do men find it a real turn off? is it wrong to tell a guy that you like him?. Personally i am quite a conservative girl, but seems like guys that approach me first are mostly not very compatible. I am wondering, should a girl make a first move if you meet someone you like? i think you won’t want the opportunity to just pass by like that without doing anything, Thank you so much.
Cheers,
Imelda
Hey Imelda! Thanks for your terrific question!
Many girls often wonder if they should make the first move, or if they should wait for guys to take the first step. We asked Violet your question and you can catch the answer soon once the episode is up! 
The first episode is up now!
http://celestinechua.com/show/2010/02/ep1-singlehood-and-dating/
Jennifer – Sorry for the late reply; it seems I missed out on your comment! I think you sort of know the answer inside of you already, Jennifer! Love is the most important thing that keeps the relationship together, and if the love isn’t there there really isn’t any reason to keep together anymore. It’s great that you are putting the baby’s needs first and foremost, but what the baby really needs is to be nurtured in an environment with love. Staying together with your boyfriend for the sake of staying together isn’t going to help the baby grow in love. I hope this helps, and happy to hear back from you Jenn!
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